Holiday Traditions

Our little family has a lot of holiday traditions.  I love traditions.  I love that they are something that we look forward to and that they link generations to generations.  As a child I always looked forward to and relied on our family traditions, such as going to the beach every summer and making monkey bread together as a family on Christmas morning.  Since getting married Richard and I have continued many of our own families' traditions and we have also had fun starting up a few traditions for our little family!  Two of the traditions that we have started in our family are making a grateful chain for our Christmas tree and making Christmas tree pizza! 

our grateful chain around the tre

This is the first grateful chain we ever made!  We started this tradition three Christmas' ago.  We start this tradition at the beginning of November each year.  Using Christmas themed paper we cut little slips of paper.  Then throughout the month of November we start things we are grateful for on the slips of paper.  The weekend of Thanksgiving we read all the things we are grateful for and use the paper slips to make a paper chain to go around our Christmas tree!  I love this tradition and how it helps us tie gratefulness into the Christmas season.   And it really helps us focus on being grateful!  

Our second holiday tradition that we have started is making Christmas tree pizza!  This tradition actually started way back during our first Christmas.  We were hanging out with my youngest brother, Stephen, and we all decided to make homemade pizza!  After that Stephen really loved making pizza and would make it all the time.  He then came out to BYU (and we were already there) and that December we decided we would all get together and make a Christmas tree pizza!  We dye the cheese green with food coloring (looks gross but tastes fine!) and use pepperoni as ornaments on the tree. We cut the dough to resemble a Christmas tree and often do wreaths and stars too.  We then watch the movie "Elf" while we eat the pizzas!  So we did that the first year with Stephen at BYU, the next two Christmases on our own, and then this Christmas we had my two brothers, Charles and Stephen (who were home from BYU and BYU-I), over to have a Christmas tree pizza party!  We had fun making the pizzas, watching "Elf", and playing board games!  Richard and I LOVE this fun tradition and love making homemade pizza together all the time!  We can't wait to make Christmas tree pizzas with our kids!  Sometimes we like to extend this tradition to other holidays and we have been known to make turkey pizzas and jack o'lantern pizzas too! 

Charles, Stephen, and Richard being goofy.  Their usual selves.  :) 

Emily with the finished pizzas!

Finished Christmas tree pizzas!  Look kind of gross but taste so yummy!

playing board games!

a year in pictures: 2011

double date

Last weekend we had a very fun double date with our dear friends, Katie and Bryan.  You can read all about it over at Katie's blog!  Click HERE to hop on over there!  Thanks to Katie and Bryan for coming over and having fun with us!  We had a fabulous time! 

there must be a reason.

“I believe we have all been created for greater things than we can comprehend." 

{Elder Jeffrey R. Holland}

I believe that God has a plan.  

There must be a reason.  

I have to believe that there has to be a reason that we were diagnosed with this one kind of infertility that cannot be changed through surgery or through medication.  Sometimes, because I'm crazy, I try to research treatment options that I haven't seen before.  Like maybe if I look long enough and hard enough I will find that it can be done, it has been done.  But instead I just find gems like the one that read "most obstructions of this kind can be surgically repaired...except for the one that we have."  

But I know it must all be for a reason.  

Richard and I, we're going to do great things.  

Our little family, well, we're going places.  

We'll find our babies.  

And we'll find our babies that truly need us.  

And we'll be strong for them.  

Because we'll be their family and they'll be our babies.  

Even though they may not come via maternity pants, cute ultrasounds, and hospital bags.  

But they'll come eventually.  

And their stories will be beautiful and unique, just as they will be.  

Just as our family will be.  

We'll be blessed to have a family full of many hair and eye and skin colors.  

We'll be blessed to see places and meet people that we may never have been blessed 

to see and meet before.   

We'll be blessed to change lives.  And others will be blessed to change ours.  

Our babies will be blessed to be loved by more than one family.  

And we will be blessed to bring not only babies into our family 

but also beautiful birth mothers and families. 

And so - this Christmas I will not ask myself "why not us?  when will it be us?  

why is this happening to us?   

Instead I will tell myself - "Of course, us.  We have something of divinity in us.  We were created for greater things.  Heavenly Father trusted us with this for a reason.  We were created for far more than we can understand now.  But someday we will understand.  

Someday everything will make perfect sense.  

And in that day we will be able to see the perfect reason.  

Thanksgiving!

Our Thanksgiving decorations

Our little family on Thanksgiving

Emily had fun setting the table and making the centerpieces! 

We hosted Thanksgiving this year for the first time ever.  We had a great time!  Emily's parents came over and they brought some of their friends.  Emily made the turkey and quite a few of the sides and her mom made a few more and a pie.  Everything tasted great even though our oven was smoking the whole last hour of cooking because the turkey juices leaked all over the oven!  Oops!  But the meal was still so tasty and the company was even better!  

After eating we enjoyed playing lots of fun Wii games (lots of bowling!) and everyone had fun playing with Carly.  She loved having lots of people around to play with!  

It was a very fun Thanksgiving!  Emily decided she might like to host every year!